Allow subclasses to modify dict_extend hooks

Allow subclasses to modify dict_extend hooks

Partial-Bug 1219991

This change modifies the hook processing for dict_extend routines
to call the method on the instance if a hook is registered as a string.
Otherwise, the callable hook is directly invoked as an unbound method.

This patch fixes hook registration for all extensions except port_binding.
This is because some plugins are currently working around this limitation
by invoking both the global hook and another dict_extend function,
which might either be registered as another hook, or invoked explicitly
before returning the response.
Fixing this would go beyong the scope of this patch.

Change-Id: Ibe78433e6554aa7fdf5156fc75b8339254876e78